I have a twin his name is Trouble

I have always been in trouble. In 18 years of my life, this will be the most troublesome. I know I can handle this. In fact, I believe I can. I have to be wise.

I used to get in trouble in school. May it be, peers, teachers, authorities you name it I have stories about it!

At home, I get in trouble because I play a lot and never get my butt to work for this business that my mom started.

Being in trouble, because some wife thinks that you're her husband's mistress is very stressful indeed. I don't know why I was born this way-- I mean being nosy and all. It's because of this that I get myself in a lot of trouble.

I know. Dangerous right? But I can't help it. I want to help them. I want to fix them. I wish I'm actually doing the right thing.

Okay, a friend of mine has been warning me. In fact, I'm very thankful that I can always count on him. Last night, I was pondering and balancing about what really is up.

I'm actually thrilled, because this is another one of my adventures. Sad, because there's this 100% possibility that I would be accused of something I didn't do. Every time this happens, I feel like crying. Scared, because I don't know what's going to happen next. But then, when I thought about fixing and helping, I always tell myself "I've to be stronger than that." I always think about my goal. I always think about how it would feel, when I actually accomplish this. It feels good knowing that you actually saved someones marriage.

Look, it's really not that bad. In fact, I actually learned something about it.

  1. When someone is freakishly mad, don't get mad. Keep your cool. It wouldn't solve anything if you get mad as well. Plus, it would make it worst trust me.
  2. If someone accuses you. Make them realize that their accusations have no basis.
  3. Use their words as your defenses. (The words, "You said it yourself, that..." would really help a lot!!! :D )
  4. If you are being accused of something you didn't do. Don't be overly defensive. This would only make him/her speculate you more. (Especially, when you're fighting with a woman. Please make sure to never ever be overly defensive. This would only make you look like that she was right after all.)
  5. Be smart and think ahead.
  6. Think before you speak.
See? This is one of my examples of not-everything-is-as-bad-as-you-think-it-is. There's always a bright side of everything and in this situation, I actually gained experience.

Last night, I got my way out. I know, it might be temporary. I'd just have to make sure to make her realize, that I don't have the intention of stealing her husband. In fact I want to be her friend as well. Yes, it is really a pain in the ass. But I have gotten myself in this, so I think I shouldn't give up now. Now, that I have made a 10% progress. Phew! Wish me not luck, but wish that I wouldn't get myself in a lot more trouble than it is like right now.

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